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Thoughts about debates, blocks, and downvotes

People block others. People post about blocking. People post about the people who post about blocking.

And now we have a buzz about downvoting. So, this got me to put some thoughts together.

Suppose I wanted to post a certain political opinion. Here are two versions of how I might do it.

Version 1: I think President X is/was a better president than President Y.
Version 2: Only a brainwashed idiot could fail to see that President X is/was a better president than President Y.

(OK, version 2 is not really my style, but hypothetically...)

Anyone would be well within their rights to block me in either case. Blocking, if nothing else, is a way to customize your feed so that you don't see things that detract from your experience here. If you blocked me, I would never conclude that it was because "you couldn't stand to hear the truth and are so pathetic."

If I used version 2, you might block me because of my hateful manner, rather than my political opinion. (There are even users here who I tend to agree with politically, but whose posts I dislike because of the tone.) So if you get blocked, it might not be because of what you said but because of how you said it. And in that case, griping about someone "not being able to stand hearing the truth" is a bit self-serving on your part, IMHO.

As for debating or arguing with what I posted: if I posted Version 1, then I think it is really out of line for you to respond with ad hominem insults toward me. On the other hand, if I posted Version 2, then I should be prepared to take whatever you dish out.

As for down-voting (which I am not planning on using anytime soon), I would reserve it for Version 2. Although we are reassured that the "penalties" for being downvoted are mild ones, I would not want anyone to be penalized simply for expressing views with which I disagree. But it might not bother me so much if the person were penalized for expressing those views (or views with which I do agree) in an adolescent bullying manner.

Just my opinions.
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SW-User
I prefer to tell someone outright if I think his/her post is not decent or acceptable. Down voting anonymously doesn't say much at all...maybe even because the person doesn't like someone.
I find it funny how we are reassured penalties are mild ones for down voting. Says those who sit back and enjoy the show. Seriously... after being here a while, I see changes brought on that use to be on other sites and they failed. It caused a lot of resentment and the penalties were not good for those being down voted...
I've been seeing that down vote feature at work and I don't feel like playing the game.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
@SW-User Your replies on SW, including this one, have shown you to be a person of integrity.

I do not plan to play that game either. I have been on another site, relatetothat.com, where downvoting caused a lot of havoc and bad feelings. The site eventually died.
SW-User
@DrWatson Well, thank you! I seriously wasn't expecting that! It means a lot to me. :)

I was on a site that implemented a leaderboard to show who the top contributing people were with posts and comments. When people started down voting them, their names and avatars disappeared... just like they didn't exist. I have a feeling that is what will happen here too. That site too ended up gone. People were constantly using down voting... and eventually, they owners made all down votes visible.... I believe it's all strategy to keep things going and interesting... and those who use and abuse... says a lot that they are willing to do so.
Peaches · F
@SW-User I second this emotion! ✔️😊