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Thoughts about debates, blocks, and downvotes

People block others. People post about blocking. People post about the people who post about blocking.

And now we have a buzz about downvoting. So, this got me to put some thoughts together.

Suppose I wanted to post a certain political opinion. Here are two versions of how I might do it.

Version 1: I think President X is/was a better president than President Y.
Version 2: Only a brainwashed idiot could fail to see that President X is/was a better president than President Y.

(OK, version 2 is not really my style, but hypothetically...)

Anyone would be well within their rights to block me in either case. Blocking, if nothing else, is a way to customize your feed so that you don't see things that detract from your experience here. If you blocked me, I would never conclude that it was because "you couldn't stand to hear the truth and are so pathetic."

If I used version 2, you might block me because of my hateful manner, rather than my political opinion. (There are even users here who I tend to agree with politically, but whose posts I dislike because of the tone.) So if you get blocked, it might not be because of what you said but because of how you said it. And in that case, griping about someone "not being able to stand hearing the truth" is a bit self-serving on your part, IMHO.

As for debating or arguing with what I posted: if I posted Version 1, then I think it is really out of line for you to respond with ad hominem insults toward me. On the other hand, if I posted Version 2, then I should be prepared to take whatever you dish out.

As for down-voting (which I am not planning on using anytime soon), I would reserve it for Version 2. Although we are reassured that the "penalties" for being downvoted are mild ones, I would not want anyone to be penalized simply for expressing views with which I disagree. But it might not bother me so much if the person were penalized for expressing those views (or views with which I do agree) in an adolescent bullying manner.

Just my opinions.
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Your Version 1 is a far more civil stating of an opinion and invites a discussion. Version 2 demands the disagreeing side to step on your toes as they have felt you have stepped on theirs.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
enjoyingitnow · 61-69, M
@onrealityofdreams I disagree there was no demand but I understand in todays feverish climate regarding political views people are quick to go on the offense in response to something that counters what they believe. I have friends that will argue till blue in the face. My way of returning to what was a civil conversation? I just ask to see proof and not accept a they say or we’ll I read it please just give me facts citations something g that tells me you did some research and fact checking or at least spent some time following the money. I am sorry this turned out to be a long winded way of saying if I were to use version two I would not look back simple
@enjoyingitnow I do appreciate the civil approach since in my opinion it is the only way rational humans communicate. I do not feel your response was long winded at all.