What is it called when…

You say something and someone else tries to present what you said differently to make it seem like you’re a negative person?

i.e. You say that people should not walk naked down the street because it’s inappropriate and the other person rebuttals you by saying that you wish you had that type of confidence.

Another example is you joking that you’ve been inside too long from quarantine that you look like a caveman and the person again rebuttals that there’s nothing wrong with cavemen in a very passionate way.

It doesn’t feel like gaslighting. What is this shit?