Do you deal with death well?

I wish I were stronger and could keep a stone face when grieving, but I can’t. Death is the only thing that makes me emotional. If you had to give the eulogy without losing your shit, how would you keep your face and emotions in check in front of everyone?

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Nobody00 · F

No. In 2018 my father died suddenly in 6 months of cancer, in 2020 my beloved person my grandma died suddenly and both times a professional specialist had to get me out of sudden deep depression. I would cry, sob and sleep all the time for days straight. Eulogy? Forget it. I could never make it to their funerals ....

DecafD

@Nobody00 I’m so sorry to hear all that. Both in such a short period of time as well. 🫂

Nobody00 · F

Thank you and both suddenly.ya I was not ready to say goodbye, let go or live without them. @DecafD my father died of cancer in 6 months but for me it was in one month cause I only found out last (they kept it a secret) . When a person is not ready ....they just aren’t. Grandma died in one day. Like “Yesterday” I spoke to her she was fine, next day my brother texts me “grandma just died” I was in shock and couldn’t come to my senses without help.

DecafD

@Nobody00 my grandma also kept her cancer a secret...I don’t know why people do that. Yeah there’s def no way you could’ve prepared yourself from either. At least you loved them and they loved you. Some people have neither.