Let's all ask questions and I'll try to respond. Agreed?

@hartfire My mother.

@xSiFiGamer2016x IS it just because she's the most important relationship in your life?
Or is she in some way ill or in trouble at the moment?

@hartfire It's both...

@xSiFiGamer2016x What is your mother's situation right now?

@hartfire She has an enlarged heart and that she's a diabetic, at type 2.

@xSiFiGamer2016x Ah, that's tough.
My mother had low blood pressure, a pacemaker and was also diabetic type 2.
When she reached the need for 24/7 care, he spent her last 18 months living with us.
Cooking her favourite dishes with fresh foods, high fibre and low GI meant she never once had a diabetic incident while with us.

I feel for you. It's hard and continuous work.