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Views on one night stands .

I know its a personal choice but given a choice will you go for it ?

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Selah ·

Its just not a possibility for me. I would need to be seduced almost to the point of hypnosis & then it has to be verbally explained to me that its a one time thing & I dont ever want to run into them again. Lol

canusernamebemyusername · M

Never had one. I tend to get to know someone first and emotionally invest:(

DownTheStreet · 56-60, M

I prefer the whole weekend, or at least until her boyfriend gets back

SW-User

@DownTheStreet 😒

Chasingthesun · 51-55, F

No, sex is very emotional for me

YoungPoet345 · 26-30, F

Nah. I don’t do dat stuff. I only do the do with a loving significant other.

JRVanguard · 26-30, M

I wouldn’t want to
I need the emotional connection

JustGoneNow

I’ve never had one and never want to... that being said, I don’t judge. I don’t look at anybody as less because they have or they want to. It’s just about me and my body. I’ve never been able to separate sex and love... so I just don’t do that.

Grateful4you · M

I've done it any number of times and always with the same reaction of "Why the hell did I even bother" sex with NO emotion invested on either side to me is a flat and empty experience but that's just me.

JustGoneNow

@Grateful4you Totally understand that. ☮️

SW-User

I dont know why I find one night stand just outrageous ..I mean I dont know that person AT ALL .how can I let him touch me ?

canusernamebemyusername · M

@SW-User Yeah. I haven't actually heard many people have one with complete strangers. Usually they know something about the person at least.

LAlexV · M

@canusernamebemyusername ehh not so much

wackidywack · 26-30

i really prefer actual connection over meaningless one time things

Platinum · M

Had a few, but I never liked it, was not for me..

summersong · F

Not my preference

bijouxbroussard · F

Not for me. I don’t do casual sex, never have.

LAlexV · M

I’m picky because I find most humans repulsive but if they’re very good looking i’m always down.

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SW-User

@LAlexV no you said you find most humans repulsive ..and suddenly if they are very attractive ,your repulsion for them disappears .I judged you on that ..but anyway dont quite care

LAlexV · M

@SW-User Alright. Valid. I don’t mean repulsive in general but when it comes to
sexual attraction... yeah that’s true about me and I think for a lot of people. Most people don’t look at flaws and get turned on. That’s not to say flaws are not beautiful but that’s getting into love territory which is a lot more my style but that’s not your question.

SW-User

@LAlexV ok

Vivaci

Nope. It doesn't serve the purpose.

PepsiColaP

Ya idc to call anyone after

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DukeOfEarle · M

Just keep it clear in your mind and heart that’s it’s all about lust and not about love. Keep the bar down low with any expectations of anything more and you’ll be OK.