Why do users have to have a public meltdown before they leave this site?

@Keepitsimple Doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt though. Words do matter even if it’s only online. 🖤

@Keepitsimple I would never presume that anyone would give a flying fig if I were here or not.

@uncalled4 Nobody matters that much... not really.

@DarkHeaven Nope. I do have some email addys from people I'd like to stay in touch with in case we leave SW or it goes away. It's strange, but some people are quite a bit of work to be friends with.

@uncalled4 Yeah. I’m a mess. I get it. It’s not like I want to be this way. I used to not be... before I got ill. 🤷‍♀️

@uncalled4 I’m one of those people who are numb to people leaving anymore. I don’t get close to anybody and I do my own thing. It’s easier that way for me. I don’t have to be here and waste my time if I don’t want to.

@Keepitsimple That’s smart, honestly. Good luck. 🦋

@DarkHeaven That wasn't directed at anyone in this thread. :)

@uncalled4 I know it wasn’t. You’re a good guy... but it fits me. I just do the best I can. I’ve got a big heart.

@DarkHeaven You're someone I'd stay in touch with.

@uncalled4 That’s kind. I don’t really do the email, though. Anything more than this site and the couple people I have in offline life is as much as I can handle. ✌️

@uncalled4 My issues are pretty severe. It’s no joke. 🦋

@DarkHeaven I'm sorry. I'm still learning about issues, both ones I have and others. I definitely have the aptitude to do so, yet all I know is that I don't know.

@uncalled4 None of us completely do. Somethings are just a mess... and that’s okay too. 🦋

@DarkHeaven Of course. I think we all need some slack on things. I've been studying things like OCD, ADHD, MDD, NPD, and even BPD in an effort to get a better understanding. I probably cannot help those with the issues, but I can temper my behavior and/or expectations.

@uncalled4 That’ll be valuable skill for relationships and what not. ☮️

@uncalled4 I hope my new girlfriend is as understanding. I’m scared to tell her about everything.

@DarkHeaven My girlfriend probably has ADHD, at least the inattentive part.

@uncalled4 Oooh shiney. 😊 Huh? What were you saying?

@DarkHeaven Opportunities like that usually present themselves naturally. I wouldn't worry about it.

@uncalled4 *giggles*

@DarkHeaven Lol. Are those Frosted Mini-Wheats?

@uncalled4 I’m going to talk about a bunch of it before we actually make love the first time. Sex is a really big deal to me and I just want to make sure she ain’t jetting out on me before we do. Just to be safe.

@DarkHeaven Sex means more as we get older, doesn't it? Communication is essential and that sounds like you're establishing a healthy precedent.

@uncalled4 it’s always been pretty important for me. I’ve never had a one night stand, ever. I don’t really separate sex and love very well. It is what it is. I just don’t want to get hurt but I’m pretty scared to start that conversation. 🦋