Ciqueish? What is the definition of a clique?
Do you feel SW is cliquish? How hard is it to get in to this site? Do you feel ignored, forgotten and why? And if you are popular do you feel you can share your life and your friends with us?
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AntisocialTroll · 56-60, F
I don't think it is that cliquey here but that might just be because I already had friends here from my EP days, so was made very welcome when I joined.
Just as in life there will always be people you relate to and got on with better than others, I don't think that's being cliquey, I do think it can often be viewed that way by people who you don't particularly like but who like you.
Nobodies perfect but I do try and be inclusive as possible but I prefer a small circle, so that I get to know my friends as individuals, some people get very annoyed by that as I don't add everyone and anyone, I only add people I can really relate to and that is seen as cliquey by quite a few I think.
Just as in life there will always be people you relate to and got on with better than others, I don't think that's being cliquey, I do think it can often be viewed that way by people who you don't particularly like but who like you.
Nobodies perfect but I do try and be inclusive as possible but I prefer a small circle, so that I get to know my friends as individuals, some people get very annoyed by that as I don't add everyone and anyone, I only add people I can really relate to and that is seen as cliquey by quite a few I think.