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Just blocked about 10 transphobes

I’m upset though at what they said. Why can’t people just respect everyone’s gender identity? In my opinion, misgendering someone is extremely abusive and immediately takes away all your rights to be respected as a human being.

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SW-User

There seems to be a wave of people right now challenging the whole gender identification issue. It's pretty negative. People are buying into the discussions that are really about pushing back on the issues.

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ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@SW-User Oh? What do you mean?

SW-User

@ShaythePanTransMan bottom line is that there's a lot of hate going around. Report it if you see it.

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@SW-User Ah. All right, I will.

Markymark · 46-50

It takes strength to be different. However, when someone doesn’t agree with me I don’t feel the need to come up with a label for those people and insinuate that they have some type of phobia. Just simply be yourself without announcing your differences.

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Markymark · 46-50

@daisymay false equivalence? Well saying I’m wrong is like saying rocks don’t exist. (is that how you do it?) I’m going to save myself some frustration and ridiculous analogies. Mark the Hetero OUT! Have a nice life ma’am or sir or both?

daisymay · 51-55, T

@Markymark

false equivalence?

Yes, you're stating that you now have to go around asking everyone what their pronouns are. That is false. You definitely don't do that.

Furthermore, no one has to do that at all. When someone is corrected (OH THE HORROR!) or informed ahead of time (OH THE HORROR!), there is no need to ask, now is there?

Mark the Hetero

🙄

Have a nice life ma’am or sir or both?

Fuck you, too! 👋

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@daisymay thanks for fucking the stupid cis boy up lol. He blocked me before I could block him XD

WalksWith · 56-60, F

People like that hate themselves. They have no confidence in themselves nor do they have empathy. They live to hate and hate to live. There is something missing from their brain (it's true!). I'm glad you've blocked them though they are everywhere.

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@WalksWith I agree. Me too, I’m worried I’m going to run out of blocks. I mean, I guess I’d just have to delete the ones who have left or been kicked off the site.

Pherick · 41-45, M

Agreed. Its always amazing to me that people get SO upset and against something, that honestly probably has no affect on them.

If someone feels they are a different gender, why would that affect me? I know my sex is male and I feel male, so I am good. Nothing changes in my world.

Then why would a friend who is a FtM trans make me feel any different? Maybe they wwant me to use "they" as a pronoun. Thats a pain :) I will probably forget, but I will try. Just like I might forget a new person's name and try to remember it.

People just feel like they need reasons to be butthurt these days.

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@Pherick Exactly, and it makes the person suffer so much. Not many people can truly understand just how much it hurts to be misgendered.

Well, it shouldn’t be a pain for them to ask you to use they/them pronouns.

They do.

Pherick · 41-45, M

@ShaythePanTransMan No I mean its a pain for me to remember to use them, I have a horrible memory for trying to remember names, and I link this to that.

Its not a pain in any other way.

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@Pherick oh XD yes it might be difficult in that case. I myself sometimes have problems thinking my professor’s pronouns right occasionallybecause they’re just so masculine-presenting.

Txbob52

Bravo!

Nunlover

What did they say

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@Nunlover Just stupid uneducated shit: “don’t complicate my life with your preferred pronoun,” “there are only two genders,” “this is just some left wing bullshit,” “omg why are there so many genders!!11-!”

daisymay · 51-55, T

When they do that, I consider it carte blanche to do everything I can to humiliate them until they flee the discussion or block me like the cowards they are.

Also, reporting them seems to actually work eventually. Unless it's one of the mod's accounts, of course.

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@daisymay That’s a good idea.
Really?

slobound · 46-50, M

Whenever I come across people like that I thank my lucky stars I don't have to wake up next to that @sshole and pittly the poor shmuck who does.
Gender is a spectrum and everyone has their own wavelength. If someone can't accept that then they're more than welcome to go F themselves. :)
Be true to you <3

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@slobound Thank you for your kind words, that’s very true.
Exactly, it’s such a simple concept yet so many people refuse to try to understand because they’re so brainwashed in the gender binary.
Thank you, you too!

slobound · 46-50, M

@ShaythePanTransMan Beyond the binary brainwash it's the fact that people (especially in America) just aren't capable of minding their own damned business. Whether it's gender identity, sexuality, a woman's right to control her own body, people just can't keep their noses out of where it doesn't belong!
Okay rant over :)

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@slobound Exactly, that’s true too. We’re all nosy.

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