Site Etiquette

Hey, some advice please. What is the best way to approach someone on here.
I have had a few people follow me with no previous interaction, and then no further contact - am I supposed to DM them?
I have had a couple of random DMs, which I have to admit it was nice to get a message.

Is there a preferred way, or do you reply on people saying on their profile what they prefer?

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sunriselover · M

Yes, the strange ones, just say, hi, from nowhere. You look at their profiles and there is nothing.

The oddest one sent me a gift within ten minutes of me joining. Then bemoaned I did not thank her.
Later in the week she blocked me.

A couple objected to my looking at their posts. That’s weird.

I tend to reply to posts, I see.

aloneinUK · 51-55, M

@sunriselover I guess it takes allsorts

sunriselover · M

@aloneinUK I’ve had a quick flick at the replies you have had. All are genuine I think, except for one guy posing as a woman! Watch out for those.

aloneinUK · 51-55, M

@sunriselover Yes, I gathered that might be the case. I will keep an eye out