Site Etiquette

Hey, some advice please. What is the best way to approach someone on here.
I have had a few people follow me with no previous interaction, and then no further contact - am I supposed to DM them?
I have had a couple of random DMs, which I have to admit it was nice to get a message.

Is there a preferred way, or do you reply on people saying on their profile what they prefer?

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HumanEarth · 56-60, F

I rather have people talk to me in the public forum

If they want to talk to me about something more private. They can message me, but if they bring up anykind of sex chat. I just ignore them.

I don't have time to be bothered with that junk.

aloneinUK · 51-55, M

@HumanEarth Thanks for that. Makes a lot of sense