Am right to feel this way?

Ive been seeing this guy for about a month and things were getting serious. A couple friends of mine introduced him to me. Anyway few days ago when i was talking how serious we are getting to my friend boyfriend as they are really good friends, he casually told me that him, his girlfriend(my close friend) who is my really good friend and the guy was seeing been having threesome but not since we met.
The guy was seeing never told me and we talked alot about our past when we were bonding etc... I cant help but feeling betrayed and my trust violated. I am so upset with the guy was seeing and my friend (girl), not so much her bf because at least he told me when he realised how much serious i was getting with him!
I have short fuse and think the confrontation wont be pretty...
What would you do? I am starting to be fuming....

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Adstar · 56-60, M

Send him a text saying that you have found out what happened and that it has smashed the trust you had in him and that he should have been honest to you about his past.. The tell him the relationship is over..

Then do what you have to do to avoid him and get over the disappointment..

SUNDAY · F

@Adstar Yes thank you. How about my friends?

Adstar · 56-60, M

@SUNDAY Well first things first.. Give yourself a week after ending it with him and then see how you feel about it.. When you're in a hyper emotional state is not the best time to make judgements like that..

But in the case of your BF yeah he needs to be cut off,, trust is central to any worthwhile serious relationship..

You may be able to forgive and resuscitate your relationship with your friends..

SUNDAY · F

@Adstar Just saw him...I asked him point blank if first of all is true. He hesitated, mumbled and said sort of...Pressed harder then he said yes...We almost had an argument but i defused it...Then my gf showed up asked her too and she gave me an attitude like i am being crazy to even care about that, then i lost it!