I am a New Member at Similar Worlds

Hi there, I'm happily married and in my early 40s. So far the 40s are the best years of my life.
I've never felt more empowered, organised, confident and uninhibited. Fortunately, my husband still finds me attractive but then I work hard to keep in shape mentally and physically as does he. We have a wonderful bond.
But I have a dread of getting older. I don't like the thought of being 50 or 60. I hope that changes by the time I get there.
Has anyone else struggled with the thought of getting older? Please tell.

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luctoretemergo · 61-69, M

Welcome
I’m new too. First congrats on a happy marriage- I’m sure you’ll stumble across the endless laments about unhappy ones so cheers to you both. As for aging-I’m in my 50s and although my optics are getting hard to maintain (hair, wasteline, etc...it’s s battle) you just have to go with it. Embrace it. There’s nothing wrong with acting your age. Nothing worse than acting like your still 20! There’s a coolness and sexiness to maturity if you do it right especially for woman! As trite as this sounds everyone loves an attractive smart mature woman! I know I do! Have a great day!
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@luctoretemergo Thankyou, yes I am very conscious of not trying to look like mutton dressed as lamb. My kids will keep me in check I'm sure. Lol 😘

luctoretemergo · 61-69, M

Mutton dressed as a lamb, I gotta remember that! 😊
It’s a challenge for men if u actually care about what you wear. Dress to well and they give you sh@t. But I refuse to ever buy anything marked “loose fit”!!!!

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I have a rule in our house. If your clothes are getting tight, don't buy new clothes, lose weight. 😂

luctoretemergo · 61-69, M

Very smart!