I am a New Member at Similar Worlds

It may be you are ultra cautious... it may be that you just haven't found someone who yu could love yet.. just dating doesnt guarantee they are right for you.. but I think when the time is right...you can and will be able to fall in love again

1. Your first true love is your self-love. Then use this time to build it up. How you do that, is for you to figure out.
2. Why not have close GF and learn how females think and what is important to them. Why, so many men will always say, "I don't know what she wants from me!!!"
3. Feelings are very fleeting and will change in an instant.
4. How you are in you counts for so much, then you will know who you are and you wont be confused by different emotions.
5. When you fall in live with who you are, you wont need to fall in-love with someone else. Failing in-love ..... is failing in-love with the idea of what you think love is. That is why so many long term relationships fail.

@Sogine I haven't loved anyone since ny ex gf. 2. I used to know almost everything about my ex even some pretty personal things. 3.I love myself but their is much room for improvement. I want a car before school starts agin..and maybe even a better job then I'll be good. I also wanna gain 60-70 pounds but who doesn't have a few things they wanna change about themselfs? 5.the thing I love about myself the mist yet hate about myself the most is my kindness. I always see the best in ppl which often ppl take advantage of..I always wanna help anyone..often putting their needs before mine. We own $800 on our new house so using my car money to pay it off.

Who says you have to fall in love every time?
It'll happen again when the time is right.
In the meantime just enjoy yourself.