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I made this account to meet people who share the same experiences as me. My husband and I recently separated. I'm not sure if we will be getting a divorce or not, I certainly hope not. We are going to marriage counseling and I am upset to say the least. We have 5 children, 2 that we just adopted. I don't want to say we wouldn't have adopted them if we knew we would be separating, because these two kids are now apart of our family FOREVER and I am so thankful for them, but I'm upset we are now a "broken" family. I am praying marriage counseling works.

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updown2020 · 61-69, M

Well that's to bad But you should take some steps to protect yourself like get your bank account that only you have access to get your own credit card. If you have anything joint cancel your name on them if you got the house well change the locks to make sure you only have the keys if there's a alarm system change all the codes and take his name off of the contact list this is very important because if you do not remove it and you change the locks and code well he can call the alarm company and just say he lost his keys and forgot his code and seeing that his name is still there they will listen to him.