Does misandry really exist ?

1. Yes
and
2. not always

Yes.


Yes.

Absolutely. So does misogyny, which is wrong, too.

I will just drop this here for anyone curious -
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It doesn't.

How can an oppressed person love it's oppressor? How can an oppressed person oppress it's oppressor?

They're categorically different.

yes and probably .. doesn't make it right but that was their experience that they project onto other innocent men that did nothing

It exists, often because of abusive men.
But that simply gives credence to it.
It's understandable.

hatred for the opposite sex is probably due to one bad experience after another with them. abuse, lies, coercion, manipulation, etc etc.