Why I'm still upset with RazorBladeKandy.
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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
What you are referring to I suspect is systemic problems versus endemic problems.
I agree that woman have a serious problem with men. Yet that is not the only problem. It's systemic.
I pointed out on your earlier post that patriarchy is a social problem. That again is a systemic problem. It causes other problems. Like this shaming of women. It's social dominance problem.
Your referral to hyper sexuality being the result of past abuse I totally disagree. Yeah I know that's that standard psychological belief. Yet again it ignores the systemic problems within the society.
Psychology wants to resolve problems based on the type of society. They deal with the endemic at the sake of the systemic problem. This is why I have to often disagree with most of psychology.
Now why do I say hyper sexuality is not a result of abuse is based on two major factors...
1. I was hyper sexual myself at a young age.And I was raped by two men that I didn't know very well. And multiple times. That was totally a dominance thing. Society allows that type of dominance, especially when the men are given a higher position.
2. Had no desire what so ever to have sex with men. EVER!
And a third.
3. Again psychology is based on the society being in the right! It leads to this type of dominance. And psychology itself is being the dominant.
I agree that woman have a serious problem with men. Yet that is not the only problem. It's systemic.
I pointed out on your earlier post that patriarchy is a social problem. That again is a systemic problem. It causes other problems. Like this shaming of women. It's social dominance problem.
Your referral to hyper sexuality being the result of past abuse I totally disagree. Yeah I know that's that standard psychological belief. Yet again it ignores the systemic problems within the society.
Psychology wants to resolve problems based on the type of society. They deal with the endemic at the sake of the systemic problem. This is why I have to often disagree with most of psychology.
Now why do I say hyper sexuality is not a result of abuse is based on two major factors...
1. I was hyper sexual myself at a young age.And I was raped by two men that I didn't know very well. And multiple times. That was totally a dominance thing. Society allows that type of dominance, especially when the men are given a higher position.
2. Had no desire what so ever to have sex with men. EVER!
And a third.
3. Again psychology is based on the society being in the right! It leads to this type of dominance. And psychology itself is being the dominant.
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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@PDXNative1986 Therefore it goes back to the systemic problem of the society being in the wrong. Which just happens to be what psychologist base their own treatments.
It's a systemic problem once again.
It's a systemic problem once again.
PDXNative1986 · 36-40, MVIP
@DeWayfarer I do think it's more complicated than SA fully explains hypersexuality but I literally have DATED A girl who educated me about how it increased her Libido after she was SAed so you're not going to get me to believe it doesn't contribute.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@PDXNative1986 Never said it doesn't contribute. Just that given no two people are alike, the problem is systemic. There are infinite causes. Even DNA plays a role.
I was hyper sexual years before the rape by six years. At eight years old. That actually caused the eventual rape. I always wanted to be with girls. Even at eight years old. Yes, that caused a problem many times. I had to learn to deal with it on my own, before the rape even.
It's why I'm so vehement about consent. Even as apart of PMing women.
The aggression is apart of the society!
I was hyper sexual years before the rape by six years. At eight years old. That actually caused the eventual rape. I always wanted to be with girls. Even at eight years old. Yes, that caused a problem many times. I had to learn to deal with it on my own, before the rape even.
It's why I'm so vehement about consent. Even as apart of PMing women.
The aggression is apart of the society!