Why has it all gotten so anti-male? [I Am Not a Feminist]

I stand for female rights but I can't get as militant anti-male as it seems to have gotten because I really love my Dad! How can I offer him the hatred it seems these feminist expound towards all men?

I appreciate the fight my sisters have fought for my rights during the decades before I was born, but I cannot hate men! They are the only place from which I can hope for a chance to become a mother myself.