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I Am Against Feminism

I am against feminism. I am also against equality between women and men. The reason being is we don't know what equality between the sexes is. It seems like we twist the word into equality equals women being successful. We don't care for the fair deal in society. We care for what we're focused on. Which is not equality, It's advantage. Now I realized that even saying I support egalitarianism is a bit dumb. What's the point of calling myself something if it won't advance to the society I desire to exist. It's clear it will advance to anything but that. I support equity. That's all I support. I support a fair deal that benefits both women and men, freedom to it's most fairest point.
Now my opinion on everything that has happened to women:
History is what it is. It was natural selection. So I feel nothing towards the people who had a bad deal because that's just how nature works. We were less advanced. We had no technology up until this point. Birth control is technically still a new discovery if you take in all of history. Human to human. It was the weak vs the strong. No matter how offensive it may be to you but weakness is was causes you to get walked on and women were biologically weak. Now I'm thankful we no longer have to survive but I give my thanks to technology and advancements. Feminism has been tried over and over and over in history. It's nothing new. Women weren't oppressed by men. They were oppressed by their bodies. Oppressed by who they were. More passive, more weak, hindered by pregnancy, and other biological components. Now passiveness is a more accepted trait in a society where we no longer have to be so aggressive. Strength isn't needed to succeed, and women have so many options that I ridicule any of them if they complain about having kids and how it oppresses them.
We live in a new society, clearly women and men have pretty much have equal legal rights. I say almost because women benefit from it more. My main focus now isn't freedom as we already have it but it's a balance of fairness and happiness. Which feminism is not focused on. Fairness isn't a focus but equality (Successful women) is. Happiness isn't a focus but their own version of happiness is their personal happiness than thinking that maybe women come from a diverse thoughts and opinions just like men. They make a huge assumption that to be happy you have to be near to almost exactly like a guy and prove it. Instead of realizing happiness comes from what you as an individual want.
As well as the fact that almost every case they make it is either misleading or they exclude the men who are part of the people who experienced issues in their lives.
Also I am specifically talking about the movements that walk upon the areas of earth that already have given women legal rights and more.
Other countries that are not. I'd say I don't really care for them to an extent when it comes to women's rights mainly because from my own experience it's not a good deal to live in poverty as a human being anyways.
That's my rant.
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RoxClymer · 41-45, M
just one question for you, if you were a principle of a high school, did your job at the same level, as any male principle, you are saying you would be ok with earning $0.75 for every dollar a male makes, even though you have been at the job as many years as he has, as many hours a day that he works, and gotten the same results out of the school that a man does, and you are still ok with 75% of his wage ?
LittleAnonymousChick · 22-25, F
@RoxClymer Of course I don't agree with that! We have a law to protect every sex and race from getting paid unequally. As well as the fact that if you do your own research. In a lot of cases where single women who work just as hard as men. They get paid more. The issue is some companies are bias towards maybe a certain person or sex. Not necessarily just one sex. The wage gap is unknown seeing as the study is very vague and doesn't consider a lot of factors that change it completely! To which is when they did a more detailed study on young men and women. They found women made more. I'm certain in some careers men get slightly more out of biasness but this is a two way street. This probably happens to every race and gender. We have yet to see a more accurate study on women and men across all ages.
RoxClymer · 41-45, M
pick one- pick them all, all of them still say there is a wage gap, even though President Kennedy sign the Far Employment Act of 1963, not just 1 study, Many studies have been done over the 50 years since that federal bill was signed into law.


https://iwpr.org/issue/employment-education-economic-change/pay-equity-discrimination/?gclid=Cj0KCQiAlpDQBRDmARIsAAW6-DOGdHDFJR8PZCqTWkUpN2wCAli2CVvwhLesHcqnABOMN5Be5LYsqlkaAt5QEALw_wcB

https://nwlc.org/issue/equal-pay-and-the-wage-gap/?gclid=Cj0KCQiAlpDQBRDmARIsAAW6-DPWOxoywEaWOiPhJ4XxI2jXioIW7AZGmm5sNbAVTh297kDoYw8KB8waAtvREALw_wcB

http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2017/04/03/gender-pay-gap-facts/

https://www.bustle.com/p/8-wage-gap-statistics-to-shut-down-any-haters-48441
LittleAnonymousChick · 22-25, F
@RoxClymer If you look at your links. They studied the AVERAGE earning of men and women working full time. It doesn't consider different job positions, Hours worked, or different career choices. It doesn't factor into who takes off more time, it doesn't consider that men are more likely to ask for a raise, and a lot of factors that I can go on about.
LittleAnonymousChick · 22-25, F
@RoxClymer The study isn't incorrect but it isn't accurate whatsoever. It's studying the average earnings of men and women working full time.
RoxClymer · 41-45, M
@LittleAnonymousChick and you are not listening, it's also judged on the the 2 genders doing the Exact Same Job, raises, time off and all the other factors.
LittleAnonymousChick · 22-25, F
@RoxClymer I read the links you showed and it didn't state that at all. May you please direct me again. I could have misread but I looked at each one.
RoxClymer · 41-45, M
https://www.payscale.com/gender-lifetime-earnings-gap,

near the bottom of the page, under the heading of Methodology, "an apples-to-apples comparison", done just the way ALL scientific studies are done. in at least high school, if not middle school you should have learned to collect Valid data you study only 1 single variable at a time.
LittleAnonymousChick · 22-25, F
@RoxClymer If you read into it. It does not take what I said into factors. It's still vague. As well as the fact that I can't find the journals for this study. So this again is an example of what I am saying. It's not accurate.
LittleAnonymousChick · 22-25, F
@RoxClymer I take all data into consideration but downright saying this is because sexism when it's still a vague study is laughable.