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I Am Against Feminism

I am against feminism. I am also against equality between women and men. The reason being is we don't know what equality between the sexes is. It seems like we twist the word into equality equals women being successful. We don't care for the fair deal in society. We care for what we're focused on. Which is not equality, It's advantage. Now I realized that even saying I support egalitarianism is a bit dumb. What's the point of calling myself something if it won't advance to the society I desire to exist. It's clear it will advance to anything but that. I support equity. That's all I support. I support a fair deal that benefits both women and men, freedom to it's most fairest point.
Now my opinion on everything that has happened to women:
History is what it is. It was natural selection. So I feel nothing towards the people who had a bad deal because that's just how nature works. We were less advanced. We had no technology up until this point. Birth control is technically still a new discovery if you take in all of history. Human to human. It was the weak vs the strong. No matter how offensive it may be to you but weakness is was causes you to get walked on and women were biologically weak. Now I'm thankful we no longer have to survive but I give my thanks to technology and advancements. Feminism has been tried over and over and over in history. It's nothing new. Women weren't oppressed by men. They were oppressed by their bodies. Oppressed by who they were. More passive, more weak, hindered by pregnancy, and other biological components. Now passiveness is a more accepted trait in a society where we no longer have to be so aggressive. Strength isn't needed to succeed, and women have so many options that I ridicule any of them if they complain about having kids and how it oppresses them.
We live in a new society, clearly women and men have pretty much have equal legal rights. I say almost because women benefit from it more. My main focus now isn't freedom as we already have it but it's a balance of fairness and happiness. Which feminism is not focused on. Fairness isn't a focus but equality (Successful women) is. Happiness isn't a focus but their own version of happiness is their personal happiness than thinking that maybe women come from a diverse thoughts and opinions just like men. They make a huge assumption that to be happy you have to be near to almost exactly like a guy and prove it. Instead of realizing happiness comes from what you as an individual want.
As well as the fact that almost every case they make it is either misleading or they exclude the men who are part of the people who experienced issues in their lives.
Also I am specifically talking about the movements that walk upon the areas of earth that already have given women legal rights and more.
Other countries that are not. I'd say I don't really care for them to an extent when it comes to women's rights mainly because from my own experience it's not a good deal to live in poverty as a human being anyways.
That's my rant.
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JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
Just imagine less than 100 years ago...women didn't get to vote. I admit that the view of women have come a long way but there is still this "gap" that still exists in today's society.
LittleAnonymousChick · 22-25, F
@JarJarBoom Jar I'd have to say there will always be a gap no matter how much you want to disagree with the idea. Women and men are different. So women will always be treated differently. Why do I say this? Do you think if a man was weak, more feminine, and biologically different. Do you think that man will be treated the same? Not really. We have equal legal rights to the point where women have slightly more to help them out. My focus is fairness and happiness. What else do you want? The same genitalia.
JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
@LittleAnonymousChick shouldn't the focus be more on individuality rather than between genders?
LittleAnonymousChick · 22-25, F
@JarJarBoom Of course! Feminism doesn't focus on individual. They focus on women and men. Equity is mostly based on individual.
Bean17 · 51-55, F
Help “them” out or help “us” out?🤔🙄😑@LittleAnonymousChick
LittleAnonymousChick · 22-25, F
@Bean17 I'm sorry. What do you mean exactly?
JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
@LittleAnonymousChick I dunno, its hard to make that argument because I've heard of extremes and then i heard of non-extremes when it comes to feminism. There are still religions out there (in the US) that treat women and girls like currency and a lot of these young girls feel they don't have a voice or too scared to really say anything. I can't say that feminism or women empowerment shouldn't apply to every situation in society because there are extremes out there.
LittleAnonymousChick · 22-25, F
@JarJarBoom I don't really care about the extremes or non extremes. I care about how it affects society and the extremes are winning. You don't need feminism to donate to charities that help out people in third world countries. Including women. I've done my fair share of donation for women. I would have to say though that being afraid to have a voice is a human issue not a female issue
Bean17 · 51-55, F
Linguistics is all. You say you’re a female but yet then you refer to women as “them”. Whatevs though—I disagree with your rant whether you really are a female or really are a male posing as a female to try to add some kind of semblance of credibility to your rant.😬@LittleAnonymousChick
JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
@LittleAnonymousChick I mean you have to care...because those are the only two existing when it comes to feminism existing.
LittleAnonymousChick · 22-25, F
@Bean17 Haha being a black female helps a lot. :) If you disagree we can always have a discussion on it via PM. I understand, my opinion isn't exactly popular. Them I was referring to feminist. Not women as a whole.
LittleAnonymousChick · 22-25, F
@JarJarBoom I'd rather care about everyone as a whole and balance and fairness. Siding with one sex is what creates the problem rather than finding a solution that's fair to both.
JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
@LittleAnonymousChick it would be nice if everyone looked at an individual rather than a gender...but yea...that doesn't exist in this society.
Bean17 · 51-55, F
Haha sure being a black female helps. I’m still not buying it dude.😉@LittleAnonymousChick
LittleAnonymousChick · 22-25, F
@Bean17 If we pm each other I can always send you a picture. Why is it so hard to believe? I find this very offensive. Men can have a diverse amount of opinion on this yet I as a female must be delusional. Must be fake.
LittleAnonymousChick · 22-25, F
@JarJarBoom It would be and feminism does not look at individuals. It focuses on gender.
JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
@LittleAnonymousChick Thats the point I'm making, there are certain situations where you can't look at individuals. I mean, lets just look at how marketing works..I highly doubt society is going to market feminine products towards everybody when obviously the demographic is going to be women.
LittleAnonymousChick · 22-25, F
@JarJarBoom The feminism should not be saying it's for equality. That's the hypocrisy of the movement that I hate so much. You say women shouldn't be treated differently, you believe women should be treated the same. yet you create this whole second to third wave movement about women. About how you should treat them differently. What they need, how weak they are, how men are doing all these bad things. How do you expect any type of equality with this attitude. Feminism needs to admit they are for women not equality.