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I Am a Feminist

We know.

Edit: for those of you asking for a source and then rejecting it, i'll spare you the embaressment. Here is the source from a journal:

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs11199-017-0761-z

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PlumBerries · 31-35, F

why does everyone have to question mens masculinity these days? not every thing they do or say is them trying to prove they are masculine.. granted I'm a female and don't truly know but not everything I say nor do is me trying to prove my femininity, so I give them the same credit

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Quizzical · 46-50, M

@PlumBerries I would not even start Plum x

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

just saying my opinion, not starting a argument or anything but still I cant hold in my thoughts

popmol · 26-30, M

@PlumBerries i understand i did the same but it still caused a argument

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

nah if it turns to a argument I just wont reply.. I'm done arguing about stuff like this on this site, but I cant hold in my opinion after reading something

popmol · 26-30, M

@PlumBerries aah well done plum!

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

I'm slowly learning lol

popmol · 26-30, M

@PlumBerries i don't have so much self control!

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

I don't usually either but whenever I get in arguments I just get stressed out and its just not fun... plus I really like @offing and don't want to argue with her..

popmol · 26-30, M

@PlumBerries ooh i really dislike her. to me she seems like a disgusting human being trying to shit on men and i feel sad if there's ever a man who got tricked by her in loving her. but thats only what i heard from 2 or
3 arguments/conversations.

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

fair enough, she has been nice to me so yeah I can only go off of my own interactions with people

popmol · 26-30, M

@PlumBerries aah yes but thats why i don't like to talk to people about these topics because she might be nice but yeah i'm a man and she seems to hate me just for being a man :p

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

I guess a lot of women just hate on men these days for being a male.. that truly sucks and I do hate that and I am certainly not like that but I also don't judge others by others opinion s on them, I only go off my own personal experience

popmol · 26-30, M

@PlumBerries as an autistic guy who doesn't understand human concepts of love its even harder if you get shit on for opening the door but also get shit on if i don't want to pay the bill at a restaurant (never happened just an example) i mean they only want the good stuff.

of course if she would be nice in pms to me and i would meet her in real life and she would be nice but really nice not fake then i wouldn't mind but i only had a couple of times talking to her unlike you of course.

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

well yeah women like that are odd.. I'm not like that.. I thank someone if they open a door for me and I like paying for my own food

popmol · 26-30, M

@PlumBerries well you sound amazing but maybe your arguments are also horrible like her :p i don't know but we both know this person differently

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

I guess it is all just a matter of opinion

popmol · 26-30, M

@PlumBerries or perspective. you saw more of the better side i only saw the horrible side :p

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

but again that is your own experience and I'm not doubting it but I have my own experience with her and I go off of that... just like if anyone talked trash about you, I wouldn't go off of that since I only go off of what I have experienced with you,, make sense?

popmol · 26-30, M

ooh yeah of course if someone said she was shit and a horrible human being i would say well i'll have to see about that. unless its friend i trust 100% but just here no i wouldn't. i understand :)

offingg · 31-35, F

@PlumBerries If the masculinity wasn't toxic and wasn't based on homophobia and sexism, then nothing would be wrong with it. But if it does, then there's the problem.

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

could say the same with femininity as well though.. lots of homophobic women and certainly a ton of sexist women out there.. hear more about sexist women these days then you do sexist men.. just saying

offingg · 31-35, F

@PlumBerries I like you too, and a difference in opinion would not make me hate you 🤗

offingg · 31-35, F

@PlumBerries Yes, exactly.

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

thanks offing :)

offingg · 31-35, F

@PlumBerries Many women do use their feminity to opress, that's also v. possible.

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