The world has millions of super-attractive women. How does a man come to choose just one to spend the rest of his life with ?.?.?

@PlumBerries Actually, the balance of power is in our hands. There are more women in the world than men. That is why men have more options. If men can't find younger women who want them, there is always the option of older attractive women who have not found their man and are looking to settle. The same is true for women

[c=#7700B2]and there are less men in the world, so women end up being with who they want and us single ladies would rather be alone I'm sure compared to being with someone we don't want[/c]

@PlumBerries you would rather be alone than with a nerdy young man out there who might not necessarily have the best social skills, but who is loyal and super-nice?? Why am I not surprised. Oh, shame on you PlumBerries. 😂 😂

[c=#7700B2]actually that nerdy young man you just described, sounds just like my type lol... but I am perfectly content on being alone. everyone dies alone, just fooling yourself if you don't believe it. so why be afraid of being alone when eventually it is unavoidable.

only get one life, I'm only letting people that I feel connected with in mine rather then let anyone in out of some type of fear[/c]

@PlumBerries ha! But my grandparents were married when there were teens. There are still together. They are in their 80s now. I fear that when one dies, the other may die as well, because they just can't live without each other.

Mark 10 vs 8 : [i] 6 “But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.’[a] 7 ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife,[b] 8 and the two will become one flesh.’[c] So they are no longer two, but one flesh. [/i]

[c=#7700B2]lol did you really just quote the bible at me? haha damn

that's great for your grandparents to be so close to one another. a rare thing indeed but everyone still dies alone[/c]

@PlumBerries I quoted the beginning. What happened at the beginning... Surely we all came from somewhere.

But that is besides the point. We may die alone, but we don't have to [i]live[/i] alone

[c=#7700B2]true but you also don't need to live with some out of fear of dying alone[/c]

@PlumBerries hm, this is not about dying alone. Its about sharing. That is always how I see it. Life is also one thing that can be shared.

Just because one relationship didn't work out doesn't mean future relationships will not work out. Sometimes failed relationships make us stronger so that we are ready for our perfect matches. My favorite girl once told me that all good things are worth working for

[c=#7700B2]cant argue with any of that but one relationship could have been so toxic that it destroys any desire to be with another person.. it goes both ways.. I like your side of it better though[/c]

@PlumBerries everyone goes through toxic relationships sometimes, but we just gotta pick ourselves off the dust and try again... for us, not for anyone else.

Anyway, you are probably just going through a rough patch. But I'm not worried about you. I know you have it in you to do what you have to do when the time is right.

[c=#7700B2]thank you, you too.. I'm sure you will find the perfect girl in your eyes (even with your very high standards haha)[/c]