I haven't been able to pin down a female friend here since I joined.

Most women here aren't here to make friends.

Told you before. Not going to repeat myself as you're not paying attention.

First, fill in your profile with honest details about who you are.
Potential friends will want to check that out to see if there's any chance of compatibility. Include details like what you do, your interests and values, and what you think contributes towards a good friendship.

Think of the kind of person you seek.
Then ask questions which have a chance of attracting that kind of person.

Be fairly active here whenever you have a bit of spare time - answering questions that show who you are as a person.

Watch the answers and see whose views are attractive to you.

When you make an approach, be honest. Say what caught your attention. Say you'd like to get to know her better and ask if she would like the same.

Don't worry about the rejections. If she says no then she's the wrong person for you. The right one will come along eventually.

not be looking ,just be a friend
and don't believe all the ones saying they love you
it takes more then a fake pic to really fall in love
I have many female friends
but they know I am not looking to "Hook Up "
and I am willing to listen to them and their concerns and fears
not just looking for someone to sleep with ,
you do know that is easier in the real world right ?
there are a lot of lonely people in this world
but if you want a mate
Try E Harmony.com ,and I'm not kidding
I made my Mom tell the truth on her questions
even she found someone ,
She always blew it complaining about her grown sons and men made her mad saying she needed to cut the apron strings and let her sons be men (not me I am a vet not a convict but Mom did try to baby 50 yr olds )
but she did find men who wanted to know her ,and Mom was a mess
if you tell the truth on the questions
I hear they are real good at finding a match that fits your personality
Here ,you do not even know if they are the sex and age they say they are
I get a lot of women sending me the same pic and saying they are that girl
she has a lot of twins then
and they all have sick Moms and need money

Don't be a prick 🤣

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Try talking to some girls mail a few till you find some you like and are willing to chat. not everyone has the time. some are on answering questions some are just on for a short time and some are chatting to other people and answering possibly a few mails at the same time. Also some dont like chatting. just the way it is

Maybe drop the Andrew Dice Clay routine.

Majority of my friends on here are male.

For some reason like 80% of friends I seem to make are girls. 🤔

See sponge bobs directions on how to blow a bubble.

twilitsona said she has kinda a crush on you

That didn't come across kinda rapey at all ("pin down" was a poor choice of words)

no dear... stop.

save your rep.


(sw has servers dammit, those things log everything.. here i'm being nice.. ok in a litigation sort of way.)

stop stop stop and stop.

ask about scrabble or if elvis faked his death

Talk about shoes. Or male bash. :)

stop talking about women like they are an object.. stop searching and just be normal.. oh yeah stop being an ass.