I've been a old-school feminist since I was around 14 marching for Roe v Wade. A lot of people who think they're feminists are not. We're not misandrists or female supremacists. We're about equality---and not just for Western white women, either. Women should have the right to live the way they want to. For myself, I will speak out against those who advocate turning the clock back for all women---but not those who want traditional lives for themselves, because that's their business.

Some people are very short-sighted. People in general do this quite a lot, they say they want freedom for all, but only freedom to do the things they personally approve of. Or people will say they accept those who are different from themselves but then balk when someone is "too" different.
I'm not sure people realize their narrow view of things all the time.

The third wave is till trying to resolve the various contradictions left unresolved by the second wave, the feminists of the late sixties. I thought the most consistent feminists were the ones who advocated for sexual freedom; humans are sexual beings, but society tells us who we can and cannot fuck. But men do not have to allow social mores to determine their sex life, so neither should women. A liberated woman, just like a liberated man, should be able to have as many orgasms per day as her body finds to be pleasurable -- and for a woman that number is pretty high.

The problem for women was and is social domination, which is a function of the structure of capitalism.

Closed thinking

You seem to know very different 3rd wave feminists than I do.

Stop picking fights and put your nose to the grindstone! The best revenge is success!

I do not understand half the labels ...what is a 3rd wave feminist?

3rd time's a charm....