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tjo267 · 41-45, M
Did you report her?

PastelHearts1412 · 22-25, F
I've come back after all these years to proudly share that I'm in college now and am working on an assignment about cyberstalking and online harassment and am able to use her as an example!!! Thanks, NearMiss for an easy A+ 🤗
funfan · 46-50, M
@PastelHearts1412 That's all news filled with awesomeness! 👏👏👏👏👏👏 So you got an A+ on that assignment? Did you include all the awful deets? 😞
funfan · 46-50, M
That troll finally got banned about this time 3 years ago. 👏 Hopefully he/she didn't return under a new username.
@funfan I can personally take credit for ridding SW of Nearmiss. I'm the one who jammed report.
tjo267 · 41-45, M
I just have to say this, people cannot hurt you with their words unless you allow it to happen. I am not blaming you for feeling what you feel. Your pain is valid, however, you expression of pain validates that person's attempt to hurt you. The lady who wrote hurtful messages to you had nothing else going on in her life. She is small, insignificant, and wants to feel important by eliciting a reaction from people better than her. It's her source of self-worth. Healthy people find self-worth from who they are and the things they do. Sick people validate their own lives by dragging down people better than them. Give her no validation. Block her. When you see a message from her, delete it and give it no mind. The opposite of love is not hate, it's apathy. Pay not attention to her, and she will shrivel up and wither away.
ScarletWitch · 26-30, F
Wt..actual..F! Dude... That's craaaazy. I got hate once and they wouldnt stop sending me gifts with hateful msgs in them. And I couldnt block them bc it was from an anonymous user.
I’ve been hurt because someone wanted from me what I couldn’t give. This hurt them and me in the process. I know I did the right thing but it was still very heart wrenching
Goralski · 51-55, M
Yes. ....people often tell me to go f myself 😭
MrGoodbar · 51-55, M
holy crap that's horrible. I just had a wacko complain about my last post as if I was personally treating him as if he didn't exist and it was just a random question to the community!

I've also had people hurt me on here but that's more private for sure

Sorry about that
SW-User
That’s horrible :( I’m so sorry you had to go through that disgusting experience. Even worse that you sharing your true honest experience one she couldn’t even imagine was what angered her. I hope you have recovered from this :(
RubySoo · 56-60, F
Thats an unpleasant story. Did you report her?

I got hurt here by forming a close friendship/ bond with another member.
My friend never intentionally hurt me.
But how things ended
broke my heart. X
PastelHearts1412 · 22-25, F
@RubySoo I reported her repeatedly but somehow it wasn't enough
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SW-User
I don’t know what they get by hurting others. Sorry for you
PastelHearts1412 · 22-25, F
@SW-User Thank you, I appreciate your support also we have the same first name
SW-User
@PastelHearts1412 you’re welcome 🤗
Yikes that is awful. 🙁
No one here has ever gone out of their way to hurt or upset me.
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
Well, there is an option to block people. ᶘ ͡°ᴥ͡ °ᶅ
I've got a thick skin and have dealt with harassment and hate sent in my direction my entire life so nobody on this site has hurt me yet. I mean maybe if I got closer to them they could but I only have a few friends on this site. It would take a lot to actually get under my skin, too much effort for most trolls.
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
Yes. Someone did the other day out of nowhere.
what was her name?
PastelHearts1412 · 22-25, F
@pandora: Her username is NearMiss
I’m so sorry. She should’ve been reported to the admins for the nasty messages and the personal thread.
There were people I’d considered friends on EP whom I realized had never been, once we came here. It was very hurtful and disappointing.
PastelHearts1412 · 22-25, F
@Quoththeraven That could be true but doesn't it show you somewhere on a person's profile if they're a moderator.
Maybe they were just connected @PastelHearts1412
PastelHearts1412 · 22-25, F
@Quoththeraven I guess so
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SW-User
People are messed up
PastelHearts1412 · 22-25, F
I reported many, many times. Nonetheless she is still an active user on here. I was really upset with Similar Worlds, she shouldn't have been able to getaway with saying such terrible and racist comments.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
You shouldn't have replied to her, it gets them more motivated u could say when u give them attention for their nasty behaviour. Should've just blocked her.
PastelHearts1412 · 22-25, F
@Dan193: Oddly enough, she would try to justify her behavior by saying that if I couldn't deal with her comments, I should just block her. She mentioned it multiple times and would say that she's been blocked many times before. It looked like she wanted me to block her, I also noticed that she would brag about having a long list of users which had blocked her in the past.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
@PastelHearts1412: oh it's understandable then.
TheDarknessHasFallen · 41-45, M
Thats jsut so sad. But also pathetic and racist of her. Alot of hat eon this site sadly. Even I get it alot :(
You can block online or leave. You can't do that in real life if you have a hateful stalker.
curmudgeon1968 · 51-55, M
sadly there are some really messed up people out there, online and off
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
Yes and it was last week. So very recent :( . And needless to say, we don't talk anymore.
SW-User
Awwww shame the women is crasy ma wys vir my jou tiete asb
Whereuat · 56-60, M
Why not block and report that beotch
sarahtree · F
Did you report?
SW-User
yes, it's what they do
Blueyed · 61-69, M
Crazy. Sorry

 
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