Why are there so many men trying to pass themselves off as women?

@DancingStarGoddess: that's what makes no sense, why would you want that on some deceitful angle. No glory in that.

@11knaves11: i don't even think they care about glory, it's all about the sneaking for them i think, the "getting over" on somebody you know?

@DancingStarGoddess: it's just a damn shame your life has gotten to that point smh

@11knaves11: you gotta ask them that, i've never understood it, honestly if they just came to us and asked what they want to ask in a respectful manner they're more likely to get what they came for versus being a sneaky pushy creeper about it. it's incredibly off putting. and i feel sort of messed up because everytime i get a message from a woman i feel sort of standoffish unless i have seen them talk for a bit in the posts here to see if they're legit.

@DancingStarGoddess: but you have too. I don't have pm convos cause you never truly know what your getting yourself into.

@11knaves11: i know, if it says "M" next to them i'm like ok, most likely a guy i still have to ask what they want, but when it's a woman i'm still somehow a bit more cautious because it seems like somuch extra work sometimes, especially ifit's a weird articifial closeness thing they try right off the bat

The whole M/F thing is perplexing when you can leave it blank.

@11knaves11: true, but what bothers me more is when people do the whole assuming thing, assumed interest you know? most of the ones who messaged me had this assumption i was "into" them in some way because they had interest and i had no clue they even existed before they sprang up in my messages. or that i was itching to give them all this stuff they wanted, and i don't get why