BeingLea · 26-30, T
Hey so if I were you I'd try not compare myself to other people too much just be yourself you'll find people who appreciate you as you are as soon as you stop letting the people who don't use your kindness as a weakness. It is strength if you believe in it
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NatalieB · 22-25, F
@MissNiceGirl: No. But you need to be you. Like what you like and say you like it. Don't like what you don't like and say you don't like it. And smile!!! :) *hugs*
MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F
bijouxbroussard · F
You can disagree, have your own interests and still be a "nice" person. I think you may think being passive or submissive is synonymous with being nice. It really isn't. But if this is who you are at your core, sounds like you may need to find friends who will accept you for you, and not compare yourself to others.
MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F
@bijouxbroussard: I am being me
bijouxbroussard · F
@MissNiceGirl: Then you may have to make sure people understand, this is who you are, and you have the right to be you. Like I said, don't compare yourself to others. If someone wants you to be more like your sister---or anyone else, perhaps they're not really your friends.
MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F
@bijouxbroussard: thanks
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
And the reason people don't enjoy your company is becoming ever so obvious
MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F
@Flenflyys: But im a very nice kind girl? But the rude or straightfoward has more friends. Even my own friends are annoyed with me and rather hang with my sister than me. My own sister said I need to quit being so nice all the time and show my "mean" and stop sugarcoating shit to people and passive.
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
Yea, quit faking it
Datdudeblack · 36-40, M
overly nice people bother me. I'm straightforward and a lil bit of a dick and i dont need to see how much of a dick iam next to someone thats so nice all the time.
MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F
@Datdudeblack: Why are you a dick? That's not very nice. My little brother is nice but also a dick and people like him and bothered with me because I'm ever so nice.
Datdudeblack · 36-40, M
@MissNiceGirl: dont always care for people emotions. society is getting more mean and nice people seem weak also people use niceness to use people.
MissNiceGirl · 31-35, F
@Datdudeblack: But I always care about peoples feelings. Except those who hurt me but I can't help being so kind and carring. My sister said I need to stop being so nice all the time and show my "mean" side for once. She also told me to stop sugarcoating shit and being too passive.