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My best friend told me off today and she has NEVER been this brutal me. Should I be mad?

OKAY so two weeks ago, one of my best friends caught me kissing her boyfriend and she is HURT and hasn't spoken to me since. I tried to show her how sorry I am. I pushed her boyfriend based after she caught us. I have been called her and texted but nothing! My other friend uninvited me to her wedding which was last week and I ended up missing it because I'm now untrustworthy.
My best friends told me off, "If you were a true friend, you wouldn't have kissed my boyfriend! That was no accident. How do you think I felt?! You were stupid enough to kiss him when you could have just back off and now I CAN'T TRUST YOU ANYMORE!!!! THE TRUST IS GONE AND I WILL NOT BE FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE THAT KISSES HER BEST FRIEND'S BOYFRIEND BEHIND HER BACK!!!!!!!" I won't tell you the other thing because it's very brutal. I had that shocked look on my face and I could not say anything. She hung up on me and cut all contact from me. We've been friends since 1998. 19 years and she is just going to cut me from her life. What did she had to act all hostile to me?!
SW-User
My, this is bad. You really have to apologize and move on. If she cut you off, don't chase her. Just as you said, if she wants to be your friend, she would still be ur friend and move on.
@EatingCereal: i didnt kiss him, he kissed me!
Shaman · 26-30
@BigDana27: Give her sometime, okay?!
SW-User
@BigDana27: tell her who made the move. And are they together?
GeniUs · 56-60, M
Sounds quite reasonable to me as long as she has binned the boyfriend as well, it always takes two.
@GeniUs: well i dont know what else to do. He kisses me!
GeniUs · 56-60, M
Pushed him off, it's too late now, you'll just have to wait but if anybody challenges you about it you should definitely get your side of the story in, again if they believe it it's up to them but it may make them think.
@GeniUs: i did push him off....after she caught us
Raffie · 61-69, F
Betrayal is something your friend cannot forgive and unfortunately there is always a consequence. This will be hard to repair given the circumstances.
@Raffie: she cut me out of her life
Shaman · 26-30
It's like stabbing someone in the back and then asking "Why you so mad?"
@BeautifulDemon: i said i was sorry
Shaman · 26-30
@BigDana27: Nice that it reverses the time back so that you can change your actions
SW-User
calm your tits dana
@mikowee: no i wont
SW-User
i bet your tits are big
@mikowee: back off
@SailorMarz: what?

 
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