why do underaged members here talk about crushes and love here?

The member ArwenPandora who is just 16-17 always says her crush is cute and wanna hug him... its not her age for that.. she must concentrate on her career and family first... she is not even an adult for that... she is actually wasting the most crucial time of her life... she will never succeed in things if she keep thinking about him... and her parents should look after that or maybe hit her with slippers or punish her for loving someone...