whats the best way to ask someone out?

yeah. i know. im kind of at the point of avoiding people because of heartache

@theowl: I would, until you are ready. Friends last longer than relationships anyways.

@ZenLioness: not my friendships.

@theowl: maybe that's where you should start. Established friendship might turn into something else later.

but my friendships dont seem to last either. like even people on here might talk for a little bit than vamous they are gone or just stop. in real life i have more acquaintances than friends. online you dont even know if the person you are talking to if the friendship is even real or if they are just using you for a while.

@theowl: I know. It's always a chance we take. I started Social media, because I worked long hours, and I didn't have time, or desire to go out. I still think of you as a friend, for what it's worth. It's also hard for you, I bet because of where you live. In any case, I really hope things get better for you. You deserve to be happy.

yeah its just really hard trusting people now a days. and yeah its really hard making any friends because of living in the middle of nowhere. theres no one to make friends with. everyone i knew has a family now and moved away. people online seem fishy. well you dont but others do. and you never can tell how long that will last as they seem to end pretty quickly

@theowl: yeah, it can be depressing.