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sad. I know someone who will marry soon and she is so sad because she doesn't know him and doesn't feel like marrying him. are you indian, or making fun of them?
Ishtar22-25, F
I'm Indian
we're both Indian gals n actually understand how that feels lol
Ishtar22-25, F
@sillygirlgonecrazy: 馃憤maybe that would be our fate too 馃様 I wanna avoid that
@radhs560: how do you feel about that, rad? about forced arranged marriages?
are you married, rad?
Ishtar22-25, F
@thinkbigaboutlife: I hate that.I wanna marry someone I love,not someone others want me to love.
Ishtar22-25, F
@thinkbigaboutlife: no
I'm not
@radhs560: my mom has given me the freedom to choose :) if i get to somewhere good (career wise)
see radhs, yaar..we might think its all bad but they do it cos they think it wud b good for us..their intention is not to hurt us na..doesnt mean m supporting that we should marry someone else if we're already in love wid someone :P
@radhs560: is it coming soon?
@sillygirlgonecrazy: so happy you will get to choose, silly girl.
@thinkbigaboutlife: days are changing n most of the parents are okay wid so called love marriages..specially the ones my generation has :)
Ishtar22-25, F
@sillygirlgonecrazy: Yeah that's right.my dad has given me freedom too lol but the guy has to equal in status,job,community etc.wanna love selectively lol馃槀
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@radhs560: I guess after 18 years of age you are allowed to marry. no one can force you the decision. It's your fundamental right whom to marry. It is allowed by Constitution of India.
the person getting married soon is in your generation... she was crying when she told me she will marry but doesn't want to, and that her family doesn't understand what she is going through. So I told her to stand her ground and say ''no''. But she told me, it's ok, I will get married anyway, then divorce, then they will understand that I didn't want to.
Ishtar22-25, F
@samdx008: That's right,but family is a big factor.one can't disobey in most cases
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@radhs560: then also it's your decision. no one can bound you.
Ishtar22-25, F
@samdx008: it's hard here lol no one would be there to support you. But I'm not born in such a strict family,but some girls really suffer.
@samdx008: my friends feels obligated to say yes since she has already said no to 3 other guys they had presented her.
@radhs560: yep..i can understand..be it marriage or not
ok if rad or silly girl want to continue convo with me, message me privately because i now have to continue with my work. ciao! subh ratri.
@thinkbigaboutlife: lol..thnx fr that but m underage n cant view ur profile 馃槄 cant pm u :P
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@radhs560: I know there are some. I am not blind to them. mainly families from haryana like gurjars and jat, they want to marry their daughters in their own caste. their girls suffer worst.
@sillygirlgonecrazy: you can't pm me? i don't get it. Is it due to my settings?
@thinkbigaboutlife: maybe :P ya
Ishtar22-25, F
@samdx008: Yeah it's really sad