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where does one find a good girl?

one that doesnt fool around with a lot of men or one that wont cheat?
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twistermind · 51-55, F
It's sad you have this view of girls.
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seen so much of it just like the pervy men online. girls are the same way.
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With girls my age, sadly it's most often a reality.
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girls between the teens to the 40's all fool around a lot with men online. its just the culture now. its sad and pathetic. just like all the creepy men.
twistermind · 51-55, F
@theowl: I didn't agree with you.
Who are online in social nets? Nearly everybody nowadays.
I can't think bad of guys in general, only because a couple of them sent me pennis pics or wanted a ticket out of their countries.

The truth is that reading some replies by guys here I confirmed what I was suspecting for a long time. Women are the ones who are know by liking gossips but I think many men are pretty hard judging girls.

Wth! I met my guy online in a chat.
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a lot of men send dick pics not a few. and most try to sex chat.. its bad on all social sites and bad on social apps like kik and whatsapp. the thing is its not just girls that fool around a lot men are the same way. i think online changed people's ability to have normal relationships. its became mostly a way to get sexual with a lot of people without even meeting them.
twistermind · 51-55, F
@theowl: When I was younger, girls also had guys around them and they tried to know the guy to see if it could work.
Only that nowadays, many of this game is online.

Persevere. And show them your intentions.
Most women actively avoid men online so I dont know why you think that.
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@twistermind: I agree

Most of the time I see women complaining about men, but I guess this is an example of the opposite. If people are having bad luck I think they need to really look in different places. Doing the same thing and expecting different results is stupid
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@Selah: not the women i knew.. i knew a lot of women online that talked with the pervs. some avoid them as they have standards.
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@theowl: Have you ever considered that while relationships can start from meeting someone online, a place like this isn't designed for that? Or are you including dating sites in your experiences too?
twistermind · 51-55, F
@MrMagic: This could be a great idea.
We are used to the comfort with meeting people online but there's anything better than have the posibility to see their faces and listen to their voices.
I confess that I couldn't have had a relationship if I wouldn't meet him online first bc of my pathological shyness but for other people, there are more options.
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@MrMagic: i was on a dating site before too. it was just a sex meet up site and married women were looking for hook ups.
twistermind · 51-55, F
@Selah: This is true and I guess it's for the same reasons it's been pointing out on girls.
twistermind · 51-55, F
@theowl: Avoid dating sites. Meet flesh and bones people.
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cant i live in the middle of no where. online has been a better way for me to meet and talk to people but people are pretty wild online.
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@theowl: I think you're making a generalisation. There may have been those that were fucking around, but by no means would every woman on there be in that category

State what you want, and if you have doubts about someone question them. Be clear and confident about what you stand for in a relationship
twistermind · 51-55, F
@theowl: It's ok. There's anything bad in meeting people online but if you want something beyond a frienship, you will have to take into account that they are people here who only want to spend time or even catfish or even see you as a passport for a better life.
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thats true.. ive been catfished by a couple of people online. online isnt the best place to get to know people. @MrMagic: im not generalizing. its actually whats out there.
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@theowl: I really hope you talked to every woman on that site then or even here, because if not you have little evidence to back up your claim
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i knew a lot of people on here and on a few other sites. youll be surprised what goes on in dm's people arent as innocent as you think
twistermind · 51-55, F
@theowl: As long as you are on guard. I understand what you mean. There will be always examples like that. Unluckily.
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yeah i just dont understand why people catfish. i knew a couple of other guys on another site who were catfished for a year. one guy actually fell in love with the fake girl.
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@theowl: There's a big difference between some or many people fucking around, and saying every woman on here or any other site has zero loyalty. You're basically claiming the latter which is stupid
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im not claiming all. not sure where you are getting that. but a lot are.