That makes a aweful lot of sense but unfortunately when a person is in a"fractured" state of mind they maybe in deep enough not to be able to see whats directly in thier faces...as in your post.
@TheLoveAge: Depends on the individuals problems. Depends what they have been through even down to age id say as the saying goes..you cant teach a old dog new tricks so sorting long term issues would be best tackled asap in life
