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My boyfriend is ocd

I don't know why but I asked him if I can come over his house he told me his family is visiting could he be lying to me ?
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SW-User
You seem to be a very jealous person.. just trust him..
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
I'm not jealous 😂 I'm obsessed with him
SW-User
It's probably because of your age.. 🤔
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@some-1: he said he doesn't mind my age
SW-User
how old is he?
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@some-1: 😂 Um 29
SW-User
oh.. too old for you no? but it's your life, I'm not judging.. hope you're happy with him
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
I am happy that's why I'm being with him discreetly @some-1:
SW-User
😊 good
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
😂 are you sure it's good because he's 29@some-1:
SW-User
well, if you were my kid (which is impossible, I couldn't have your age kid 😂) I wouldn't want you to date a 29 year old guy, because he's obviously too old for you and I'd be thinking he's not taking you seriously enough you know.. and I'd be sure it's not forever (I am sure it's not) I'd tell you, you'd meet someone your age and blah blah.. BUT you're not my kid 😋
I still think it's not normal to be with someone that older than you, but I'm not gonna judge, plus you won't listen so i'll just say love is the most amazing thing ever!
I doubt you love him for real though 😉
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@some-1: 😂 lol you're funny and I do love him but when he gets nervous around me gets me nervous and we both go through this awkward silence but I really do like he we even kissed and everything the first day we met was awkward until we went straight to sex and the second date was a bit awkward but we talked more this time and he hugged me but I was a bit awkward how he did it 😂 He sorta acts like a little boy I know he's an old guy but when it comes to being with me he gets really nervous unless he's touching me or doing something sexual he's normal 😂 He's not use to dating he told me he's never dated just went straight to fucking and he's never even been out with a girl so I can see why he'd be nervous but do you think he gets nervous with anxiety because I am talking not that much when I with him or because he actually likes me
SW-User
maybe he acts awkward just because it's not legal to have sex with a teen? what do you think?
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@some-1: well 😂 I highly doubt he's awkward about that he fingered and kissed me in his car he even had sorta like sex in a restaurant bathroom with me and one guy walked in and caught us I don't think he's worried about that or he would have been took me to his place instead the reason why I asked why he does he get nervous is because we'd get this awkward silence and he can barely look me in the eyes 😂 But when he's doing sexual stuff to me he looks me right in the eyes and when I asked if he wanted to kiss he got nervous and said he haven't done it in years and only with 2 people so he told me to make th first move which I did it was nice 😂 But he did tell me he was nervous about taking the lead of kissing because he was afraid he'd forgot how to do it
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@some-1: i don't know if he actually loves me or if it's just for sex I don't know these things because I am a virgin and I've never had a boyfriend so I don't know the signs
SW-User
you said you had sex with him so you can't be a virgin
whatever, he sounds weird..
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@some-1: 😂 Well we tried but he kept going hard and soft so after we tried and everything we got in the care awkward silence again and he kept saying sorry about the fact he kept going limp I was like it's okay 😂😂😂 we'll try again
SW-User
don't get mad.. but he sounds creepy.. do you even know what is his job, what is his hobby, things like that.. ever been in his house? have you met his friends?..
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
He like to watch movies I guess that's a hobby right and work out a bit he's a landscaper 😂 I'm not mad he's not creepy just sorta nervous shy and like a little kid he's ocd and he's not use to being around strangers I guess thats why he got nervous when we went to Starbucks
SW-User
ok
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
😂 um I hope you're having a nice day @some-1:
SW-User
yes..thanks😉
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
You're welcome ☺@some-1: