Can you relate?I love her (or him)but can't be with her?

I'm married but not happy...

@fantastic912: I see. Well I've been in this position but instead it was my wife who wasn't happy and had her eye on another man. Um I don't know What's going on but I wish the best for you. Maybe it'll work out

Are you still together?

@fantastic912: no she bailed left me and our son who was 2 at the time for that guy. She filed for a divorce with no warning and got an annulment. He ended up leaving her in Hawaii for another woman and she committed suicide in the hotel room.

Don't go down that path. Talk to your wife see what might be going on and if there's something you can do to fix it.

@Daddyoflucas2009:That is crazy man....I'm sorry about what happened to you..
I can't tell my wife how horrible she is...she even cheated, I am still here because of my 3 kids ...

@fantastic912: I'm so sorry dude. I hope things work out for the best for you. Um have you tried marriage therepy. I know it's cliche but at least you could tell her in a secure environment how you feel and you would have a professional who can help work with you and her. It's just a thought but idk I might be worth a shot

I don't know for now ..it is not the same anymore....I am just doing things for the sake of the kids ....
No therapy can help...like a glass that's broken you put it together but still feels weird using it

Thank you for sharing your wisdom from experience..

@fantastic912: your welcome. I'm sorry to hear that. I don't know your situation but I hope things get better for you. 🙂