why are dad bods more socially accepted than mom bods, & she’s the one that has given birth?🥴

Objectification of women to fit some "image" per usual.

I highly dislike both phrases. I think it's used to make people feel better about their bodies, like justification. Versus just accepting.
People are just people, has nothing to do with being a parent. Either they are appealing and attractive to me, or they aren't.