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Do you try to make everyone like you? or wonder why someoen dislikes you?

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
No and no

People will dislike me even if I shoot rainbow sparkles out my ass hahaha

Ya can’t please everyone, and I’m done trying for the most part
popmol · 22-25, M
@WaryWitchWandering well i woudln't dislike you for doing it but please not at the dinner table :p

xD smart!
SW-User
no. i don't like everyone, so that would be hellish. if someone doesn't like me, i take it as the best sign i shouldn't be liking them either. no further questions, ty
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User ooh if someone doesn't like me i'd do anything to figure it out! unless they are horrible themselves
SW-User
@popmol they usually are... or at the very least not pleasant to entertain as an acquaintance
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User haha i can enjoy the company of almost everyone but i dislike smokers, highly religious people, people with bad music tastes and big bullies
revenant · F
If I tried to make everyone like me I would not be me
popmol · 22-25, M
@revenant unless thats who you are, the person that wants everyone to like them :p
revenant · F
@popmol nope. People who want to please everybody have 0 personality
popmol · 22-25, M
@revenant so i still have some because i want to please about 80%?
It's not possible to be liked by everyone when you're a person of opinions, and on top of that being gay.
popmol · 22-25, M
@pillowprincess xD i know but thats how you had to be if you want everyone to like you or at least try :p
@popmol
Why would I try to make people like me, if they only like someone that I'm not? I don't want everyone to like me. Bigots can hate me for what I know, I don't care.
popmol · 22-25, M
@pillowprincess xD that is fine
LilPrincess · 41-45, F
Absolutely not

How i sleep knowing people don't like me

popmol · 22-25, M
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Hell no. I learned many years ago I couldn`t have everyone like me and I`m fine with that now. If people don`t like me then that is their prerogative.
popmol · 22-25, M
@Degbeme i see :)
Lilymoon · F
Hell no .... although I used to be like that 😐
popmol · 22-25, M
@Lilymoon not sure. i don't know if its my inquisitive nature but i like to know such things, but people don't spell em out!
Lilymoon · F
@popmol well I like ya 😉 😁
popmol · 22-25, M
@Lilymoon i'm glad about that :) if you'd hate me i'd be devastated!
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
I try to be nice but sometimes it doesn't workout. 🤣
popmol · 22-25, M
@SarithBorn leave people to their workout!
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
I sometimes think about why I’m so unlikeable. I don’t worry about it because I can’t do anything about much except what I’m working on. I do want to be liked by at least one or two people eventually.
popmol · 22-25, M
@AlchemyFox i quite liked you ;(
SW-User
No but it affects me once someone liked me, started disliking me for some reason I may not even be aware...
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User ;( thats true!
caPnAhab · 26-30, M
I don't try but If they like me, that's cool. If they don't, it's just whatever. I'll just do what I do
popmol · 22-25, M
@caPnAhab xD good!
SW-User
No. When I was younger I did but not anymore
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User what changed?
SW-User
Life changes you. I've learned to value myself. It's an unrealistic goal. Nobody is liked by all @popmol
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User well i have not had such a character arc so i'll still try!
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
No and I don't worry about it unless they are in some position of power over me.
popmol · 22-25, M
@CrazyMusicLover makes sense!
AmericanBroad · 31-35, FVIP
I don’t try to make people like me. They can take it or leave it
popmol · 22-25, M
AmericanBroad · 31-35, FVIP
@popmol 🤷🏻‍♀️
SW-User
Good grief no
I know I'm not like by everyone and I'm good with that ...
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User lovely :)
Adamski24 · 41-45, M
No we're not here to be liked, you either like me or you don't.
popmol · 22-25, M
Piper · 61-69, F
No to the first question, and yes...sometimes, to the second.
popmol · 22-25, M
@Piper aah :)
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Unfortunately, yes
popmol · 22-25, M
Wiseacre · F
No, and no!
popmol · 22-25, M
@Wiseacre well glad that doesn't weigh on your mind!
No.... i know i am not everyone's cup of tea

Besides.... i don't like everyone
popmol · 22-25, M
@InOtterWords a classic! sweetener already in there or is that to people's choosing?
@popmol no sugar needed....i'm sweet enough!
popmol · 22-25, M
@InOtterWords definitely! i'd enjoy you :)
SW-User
I already know why I am not liked. lol

I don't want everyone to like me. That's too much work!
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User why don't people like you?
SW-User
@popmol There are plenty who like me, but plenty who don't because I don't fit in too well.
Many times, we can figure out why someone doesn't like us. lol
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User xD i can't :p

you must be a rigid puzzle piece :p
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popmol · 22-25, M
@RogueLoner how lovely!

 
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