Sometimes you have to be an asshole and set healthy boundaries than to me a nice person that gets pushed around..

I am kind but I refuse to let people push me around and if they push my limit, I WILL be a asshole and set boundaries. I can MEAN. You don’t know how MEAN I can get. I’m not saying to be rude, disrespectful or call people names. Just be an asshole by setting healthy boundaries and not letting people take advantage of you.