Why do exes find new ways of getting your attention after you break up with them?

It’s grief basically. it’s hard to go from being welcomed to see someone any time you wanted to not being permitted at all and not being wanted. I had a hard time with my last bc before I was married. I practically lived with him and was forced to move back to my own place. It was hard.

What I find interesting is why this question doesn't answer itself.

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We all know the type. One of my closest male comrades that I lost touch with a while back nearly killed himself over some girl.

I remember having very frank convos with him about it all. of course, I was lonelier.

Circumstances change.

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I have a saving throw so to speak against Suicide though in that since my Anger is turned outward instead of inward and It's the world I blame for everything in essence even in my darkest moments i will persist simply out of spite- I want to make this Awful appalling world suffer for what it put me through so I succeed to torment it.

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Seeking validation, trying to get you back, who knows.
My ex started blowing up my twitter feed a few months after we broke up. Now she does it whenever she's sad and lonely. I tend to ignore.