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Would it be a good idea for the human population to have their first partner to be significantly older so they can share the experience?

Bad idea. Ive found that when a partener is much older, they *intentionally or not* cause the younger to go through personal development in a way that is too accelerated, superficial, and artificial. Later when the relationship ends (and it almost always does) the younger is left a stranger to their peers. They have to re-start the maturing process, kind of like when you speed skim a textbook. You read it, but you probably didnt absorb enough to have learned anything. The younger could be left feeling like they really missed out on their youth at having to experiance with an older person's lack of intrepidity.
popmol · 26-30, M
@JamieDeer my only issue with someone your age is because that if we truly are in love i'll have to probably see them her die ;(
but i think the max would be one generation up :p

also if thats you in your profile picture you barely look above 25!
@popmol wow thank you! It's a year old. Im 36.
popmol · 26-30, M
@JamieDeer i woudln't guess that age!
This is make my my skin crawl a little…. No. That’s sounds so… not ok. But maybe it would be fine.
I think having society put she stipulations on my personal choices difficult enough now. My first love should have to be ‘some old dude’. Which is this would have sounded to me when I was young.
popmol · 26-30, M
@nonsensiclesnail well you don't have to see in a positive light! i mean i wondered what you would think so i'm glad i got the unfiltered oppinion!

and yeah i've heard of the toys thing but i don't know how older woman think is it similar?
@popmol I had a friend who, when 42, would date 19 year olds and it disgusted me. So for me, no! But for others, it seems to be a thing. I can’t say I know what they get out of it.
popmol · 26-30, M
@nonsensiclesnail well they think the younger is newer and hotter like the new car? shiny?
i just like older woman myself! much more intirguing xD and often more beautiful!
No
Same age or very close to it
popmol · 26-30, M
@rocknroll i see!
Wiseacre · F
Depends on u want...we are all different...and vive la difference!
popmol · 26-30, M
@Wiseacre beep boop beep robot are same, robot comunicate better!
sure ? it happens already
popmol · 26-30, M
@deathfairy but everyone not some :p
eh, no thnx @popmol
popmol · 26-30, M
@deathfairy xD not some grandpa or something though xD
SW-User
My ex was nine years older and was initially scared of woman on top worrying the neighbours would see through the blinds 😂🤣😂

So no, age has nothing to do with being a good or bad partner
popmol · 26-30, M
@SW-User no women terrify me xD i'm not ready in the slightest for a relationship :p
SW-User
@popmol awwwww 🤗

You take your time then
popmol · 26-30, M
@SW-User well i would want one soon! i mean everyone hypes it up so much!

 
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