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ABCDEF7 · M
Having tea.

SW-User
@ABCDEF7 Very nice. :)
ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User It's raining here. I particularly like tea when it's raining. You like tea?

SW-User
@ABCDEF7 I like tea, yes. :) I like rainy weather too when I am indoors. Thunder is even better.
ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User Now waiting for call from a girl. Our parents has found us through a matrimonial site. Don't know what to ask her.

SW-User
@ABCDEF7 Oh oh... how exciting. Are you excited about this new possibility? I am sure you will think of something and in the most gracious ways. :)
ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User Yes, excited but confused too.
Thanks, I will try to..
Thanks, I will try to..

SW-User
@ABCDEF7 You'll let us (me) know how it went? Lol.
Why are you confused?
Why are you confused?
ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User Ok.
There are many things that I wanted to tell & share with any girl before her deciding anything, but don't know how to start. Also don't know will I come to expectations of her. Here in our culture, we are bit conservative, and I am not outspoken.
There are many things that I wanted to tell & share with any girl before her deciding anything, but don't know how to start. Also don't know will I come to expectations of her. Here in our culture, we are bit conservative, and I am not outspoken.

SW-User
@ABCDEF7 Do you just get this one meeting or will you be able to meet her a few times before you decide?
ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User We had a call previous weekend too. That time we just talked about our education, jobs and hobbies.

SW-User
@ABCDEF7 So the second meet seems to be a good time to open up about more intimate thoughts you would want to share, right? Things important to you, and her of course.
ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User Never had a girlfriend in life, I am hesitant in talking to girls. Moreover the issues I want to discuss are not so openly discussed in our society.

SW-User
@ABCDEF7 You know, you would make a great husband to someone. Be yourself, see her as another person and don't get intimidated by her being a girl, and does it matter what is discussed generally when you have a need to discuss it personally? I am sure this kind of openness is necessary if you are choosing to spend your life with someone.
ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User You are right. Don't know how things will go. I think I will need few more calls/meeting to be open that much.
Thanks for your words, It gave me some confidence.
Thanks for your words, It gave me some confidence.

SW-User
@ABCDEF7 You will be fine and if you need more time, then take it. Just remember, you're amazing.
ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User Thankyou :)
She asked for 10 minutes when I asked her, Can we have a call? And it's going to be 1 hour.
She asked for 10 minutes when I asked her, Can we have a call? And it's going to be 1 hour.

SW-User
@ABCDEF7 Have fun okay? :)
ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User Thanks :)
Take care..
Take care..
ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User Today we just talked about politics. 🤣

SW-User
@ABCDEF7 LOL. That is so funny.
ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User As I said, I will need many interactions to be that much comfortable.

SW-User
@ABCDEF7 That's okay, I think. Hopefully convey that to her too, that it's your nature and not a lack of interest. :)
ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User I asked her she can ask if she likes to ask anything. But I think she is also not comfortable by now.
She also told me she is looking for purchasing a laptop on a website. Later after searching, I shared the link to laptop with same configuration & brand on other website cheaper than what she was considering. We both are programmer.
She also told me she is looking for purchasing a laptop on a website. Later after searching, I shared the link to laptop with same configuration & brand on other website cheaper than what she was considering. We both are programmer.

SW-User
@ABCDEF7 Ooooo, nice match, lol. :) Well I really wish you good luck on this. And that everything works out for your and her best.
ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User Thanks :)