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Have you had someone on your mind lately?

One, actually. I don't know what makes a difference between today and all of those other days since May, but all day today I can't get this guy out of my mind. We fooled around a little during my final month of high school so it's natural I'd think about him now and then, but to this extent is just a little bit concerning... ARGHHH
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IAmFlex · 26-30, M
That sucks. You could always meet someone else. May not be as easy, but could make you think of another guy.
ManicMicah · 22-25, M
That's what I'm hoping for.
IAmFlex · 26-30, M
@TheDarkestZero: What've you been up to to get there?
ManicMicah · 22-25, M
@ProxyVox: What do you mean exactly?
IAmFlex · 26-30, M
@TheDarkestZero: What are you doing to meet other guys and forget the one guy? Like, if I were looking for guys and I used SW to meet them, I could comment on posts and chat with them hoping we PM later on and so on. Stuff like that. Get what I mean?
ManicMicah · 22-25, M
@ProxyVox: I hate meeting people on the internet, when I'm looking to get close to a guy. I want to meet them in a genuine way...meet them face-to-face, become friends and get closer and then we fall in love, something like that. I've never been good with just asking people out either. Like, I used to be really all about appearance but now I want an actual relationship, but before we get to the dating I'd want us to be emotionally connected first. I know it's hard finding a gay guy to befriend without asking them out, but I'm hoping one day I'll find someone.
IAmFlex · 26-30, M
@TheDarkestZero: Don't worry, I get you. I can be the same way. But I think dating should happen as you form an emotional connection with a guy. So, that if you meet a guy, you form a physical, personal friendship that can become a coupled relationship and then evolve into a more intimate relationship. And to be fair, I met my bf online and we chatted for like a day or two, went on a date and then on a few more dates and then kissed and then made out and now we're bfs. Still working on the becoming emotionally intimate (sex doesn't have to be about intimacy until you want it to be).