how long should one wait to confess something to your patner

thanks

@wudifu: Hedonist is right! Don't do it at all if it's just to make you feel better. If it is something important your partner needs to know, then just tell your partner in a simple clear straightforward manner, preferably in person.

@greenmountaingal: yes he is right an old man that has learned from his mistakes or mistakes of others......always listen to old people even if you think they irratating

@wudifu: In general, we old folks may not have a lot of advice about the newer technologies, but we do know a lot about life situations.

@greenmountaingal: exactly.......old school is awesome

@wudifu: Oi! Who are you calling an old man? You must have a liking for hospital food! 😜

@Hedonist: hahahahahahahaha.........sorry sir......thanks for your awesome advise i will be using it .......but i just want to find out isn't that also somewhat selfish if you better half doesn't know all about me as a person ......but it will be chaos if i do decide to tell her.......and it has been troubling me to tell or not to tell

@wudifu: Is it really something she has to know? How would it benefit her to know? Why would it be "chaos" if she doesn't know?

no if she knows it will be chaos......i think ......i have lots of sins to confess

i am actually really lucky to have her......she is a really good woman and i don't want to lose her due to stupidity......

and im also so happy that i have 2 old people helping me here .....a woman and a wise old man