Is your standard of rating peoples beauty off from the general standard?

Ultimately, the beauty I most value is inner beauty. But I like cute nerdy guys who are kind and a selection of other things. But haven’t found anyone that actually meets those standards. Just decoys. I need a man that is actually legitimately into health and fitness and actually knows how to cook healthy meals for himself and is actually capable of keeping up with me on outdoorsy adventures. One day, he shall fall upon my path. If not, I will be a bad ass independent lady nonetheless with a very cute cat. And enjoy life with my freedom.