I'm extremely upset right now. My time has been wasted. I HATE men

3rd time seeing this guy and i show up at his place. He lives approx 45 mins away. I text him saying im here because we were gonna grab lunch. I wait a few minutes then call him. Voicemail. I wait another 15 minutes and ring him again this time it says the caller is busy i didnt get a voicemail option. To me this means he totally knows im here because he's obviously on his phone but doesnt care. I ended up leaving after wasting a good half hour waiting. It's now after 2pm and i showed up around 12:30 ish.

Why does this always happen to me.