*shrug* I don;t actually know but I suspect that it because there are no consequences for our actions. I don't mean this in only the negative sense, but in the positive.
Everything is very intentional and there is no unintentional contact.
You find someone you really enjoy, but the enjoyment lasts only while they are on the screen in some form in front of you. There is no bumping into one another, there is no sitting together smiling at the same things making light conversation. This is a very limited way to communicate and people are easily brushed off and moved on from without consequence.