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Katie01 · F
Found someone hotter than my bf
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tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@Katie01 Only cheated once?
Katie01 · F
@tallpowerhouseblonde depends on your definition of cheating
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@Katie01 Hooking up with other men when you have a boyfriend.Sex definitely is cheating,going on dates pretty much is too.
Katie01 · F
@tallpowerhouseblonde what if it's an ex? Surely that doesn't count. Like once I was in a relationship and my ex asked to stay at my house for a couple nights, and I let him share my bed and we ended up hooking up both nights. I've never counted that as cheating seeing as I used to date him
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@Katie01 It's definitely cheating when you hook up with an ex.
Katie01 · F
@tallpowerhouseblonde that doesn't seem fair. Guess we have different definitions of cheating. What if it's one of my friends? Or if it's something less sexual like a blow job, hand job, or kiss?
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@Katie01 A kiss you can probably get away with,blow job probably not it's still leaning towards cheating.hand job a little less.
With one of your friends is still cheating.
With one of your friends is still cheating.
Katie01 · F
@tallpowerhouseblonde I don't think any of those should count as cheating tbh. They're basically the same as hugging to me. Friends and exes definitely shouldn't count. What are your thoughts on my first example? He wanted a threesome but came too early so I had sex with the other guy for over an hour? It was the best sex I've ever had but I felt that was cheating afterwards
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@Katie01 That one was not cheating as is was agreed on and wanted by your boyfriend.He put in a lousy performance and lost the opportunity.I love MFM threesomes.You kind of lost too because you would have been enjoying two men all to yourself.
Katie01 · F
@tallpowerhouseblonde interesting. I have had threesomes after that and I can definitely agree they're amazing
popmol · 22-25, M
@Katie01 well he decided to it. if he didn't like it as much as he thought he can't say in the middle, i don't like it anymore let's top! that works if you are having sex but if he is not involved physically.
like i'd allow my girlfriend if i had one to do it if i wasn't physically enough! i'd feel bad because i don't want her to be with someone else but i don't want to leave her unsatisfied !
like i'd allow my girlfriend if i had one to do it if i wasn't physically enough! i'd feel bad because i don't want her to be with someone else but i don't want to leave her unsatisfied !
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@Katie01 Now if you didn't agree with your boyfriend that you were going to have more threesomes that is cheating.
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