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What's the proper way to deal with someone begging?

I walked through my local highstreet, for the most part I spend my time walking around with earphones in.
Anyways one woman spotted me coming and attempted to ask me for money, I chose to ignore her.
The second woman less than 5ft away tried the same thing.

I do feel guilty as i feel like if I give to one I have to give to them all.

What bothers me is that here in the uk, you can claim benefits.
But I worry these people are not here legally.
And I worry if I stop and talk someone might mugg me.

I'm not judging, I just avoid talking to them because on another seperate occasion recently one woman swore at me for saying I no longer walk with change, which since the pandemic is true.

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SW-User
When that happens to me I offer them a meal and a drink bc it’s nourishment… I never give money bc they could use it to buy bad drugs or something so I give them food/ cool drink instead ♥️
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@SW-User when on my way home from work or a restaurant of I have food that I know I don't want. Instead of chucking it away I will see it there is anyone around that I can give it to.
I have had a guy say to me he didn't want what I had and then tell me the kind of things he likes and that he was allergic to nuts. I looked at him in complete shock!

And I must admit I haven't done so since!