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What's the proper way to deal with someone begging?

I walked through my local highstreet, for the most part I spend my time walking around with earphones in.
Anyways one woman spotted me coming and attempted to ask me for money, I chose to ignore her.
The second woman less than 5ft away tried the same thing.

I do feel guilty as i feel like if I give to one I have to give to them all.

What bothers me is that here in the uk, you can claim benefits.
But I worry these people are not here legally.
And I worry if I stop and talk someone might mugg me.

I'm not judging, I just avoid talking to them because on another seperate occasion recently one woman swore at me for saying I no longer walk with change, which since the pandemic is true.

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Catzgano · 31-35, F
They are usually scammers do not give them money. Here they do like tv investigation an they follow them back to their cars and homes it’s totally disgusting!!!
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Catzgano tbf these women without being judgmental appeared to be of Eastern European decent.
Dressed in their long skirts.
I didn't have the change.
But after the previous experience I just don't talk to them.
I thought offering them that courtesy would be enough...
But she actually wanted me to buy food for her and was pushing the baby at me...
It was quite an uncomfortable and hostile experience...
Catzgano · 31-35, F
@Mellowgirl omg yes. A woman here stood out in the sun for hours with a baby panhandling until sheriffs finally said take the baby elsewhere it was like 90 degrees