Have you ever been hurt so much by a family member but still when they passed on, you were deeply affected and grieving?

Depends. When my mom died, I grieved. It feels like the end of the world. She was not perfect but she all I had. She comfort me when I need her the most.

But when my grandma died, I feel nothing. I never closed to her actually but she badmouth my mom too much even after she died.